14 yr old dating 19 yr old
\n Not unless he wants to look down the barrel of a shot gun.If the parents of the minor give their consent then all is well, but in most cases 14 is too young and this 19 year old should pick on someone their own age.. \n OMG, i think what you just said is kind of mean.......\n.Once they'd gotten over sulking about that I'd discuss the problem with them, pointing out that they know it's wrong or they wouldn't be hiding it and wouldn't be lying about their age.I'd ask them how it's working for them right now and what problems they have. I'd also point out that if they are sexually involved they need to be using condoms for health and preferably another form of contraception as well.I know it must be very stressful for you but the most important thing is to keep the lines of communication open between you and your daughter.It's a complicated age gap Edited by ceeshell, 10 February 2016 - AM. There is the fact of the 18yr old being able to go out clubbing or drinking which could lead to the 14yr old being coerced into doing it as well.When you're 35, you can date a 24-and-a-half-year-old woman.Now you're dating someone 11 years younger than you. Wow, at 70, the 42-year-olds are probably some of your daughter's friends from high school who grew up hanging out at your house and who have now gone through divorces. When women date younger men, they are called "cougars," and people say they are messing around with younger guys.
The fact they are sneaking around, means they know it is wrong anyway. Being 14, I'm wondering where they would socialise? How much time would they likely be able to do socialising 'alone' - as in when other adults are present?
What about if your 10-year-old looks at you and says, "I'm ready to date, Dad"? There is so much a 12-year-old can teach a 10-year-old -- advanced coloring, advanced texting, and so many other important life skills. You're 20 years old and, under this rule, you can date a 17-year-old. There you are in college, and you get to go back to high school again to find a girlfriend.
When you're 25, you can date a 19-and-a-half-year-old.
I mainly ask as if they are reluctant to speak to you about the boyfriend they surely are not expecting to have them over to their home or go to their home?
Are they members of the same sporting club or something?