Buddhism and dating
Men and women must have the liberty to separate if they really cannot agree with each other.
Separation is preferable to avoid miserable family life for a long period of time.
Even though the Buddhist texts are silent on the subject of monogamy or polygamy, the Buddhist laity is advised to limit themselves to one wife.
The Buddha did not lay rules on married life but gave necessary advice on how to live a happy married life.
There is no reason for Buddhists to oppose birth control.
They are at liberty to use any of the old or modern measures to prevent conception.
A good marriage should grow and develop gradually from understanding and not impulse, from true loyalty and not just sheer indulgence.
The institution of marriage provides a fine basis for the development of culture, a delightful association of two individuals to be nurtured, and to be free from loneliness, deprivation and fear.
It is not laid down anywhere that Buddhists must produce children or regulate the number of children that they produce.
Man must realize the difficulties, the trials and tribulations that he has to undergo just to maintain a wife and a family.
These would be magnified many times when faced with calamities.
Those who object to birth control by saying that it is against God's law to practise it, must realize that their concept regarding this issue is not reasonable.
In birth control what is done is to prevent the coming into being of an existence.