Dating a man who will not commit
Getting a man to commit is one of the all time big questions that every woman at some point in her life has wrestled with.It is one of the most common asked questions that I have women ask me when I coach them and the golden rule is: ‘Think pleasure and pain! Suppose you’ve been dating a guy for 4 weeks or so and he tells you he doesn’t want to be exclusive.Though it might seem somewhat like a game, it will encourage a man stay because he feels like he’s been awarded your attention and company over many others.Being selective means you let him know that while you like him and enjoy being with him, you are also a woman with options who is in control of what happens to her. By continuing to have a life outside him—nurturing your hobbies, spending time with friends and family, improving your life and career.How does a man feel when he is in love is tied to how much he admires the woman in his life.In other words: most men are mesmerized by ladies who have a full life, and somehow, invite them to be part of it.When you can both depend on one another to share be emotionally supportive, not only of one another but as individuals, that’s what will make a man fall in love—big time.Truth be told, everyone enjoys being needed—whether it’s to reach something on the top shelf or to give advice on a client proposal.
A positive experience is anything that you both enjoy and that, above all, is fun. Read the paper together and do spontaneous things without planning. All of these experiences show him that you are a woman who is easy and playful to be with, and that’s the kind of woman he’ll realize he’d be a fool to let go of.They let him call her up and come over whenever he’s around, they break plans for him, come and look after him when he’s ill, the list goes on….If you give a guy all these things before you’re even dating he’ll think: “Why do I need to commit when I can get all this attention and still be single?” You always need the guy to realize that every time he commits to you a little bit more, things get more fun, more exciting, more romantic, and more sexy.If you give him everything all at once right away, there’s nothing left for him to achieve by being in a relationship with you.