Dating people short
aintnodeal I have dated woman from the horse community, but I have not found what I am looking for.Most are to young, or want kids, or someone to take care of them. The rest fall on mutual friends of ours which I don't want to date or get involved with. Every guy has his own preferences, and these influence whom he dates.You'll estimate a woman's height as soon as you approach her.
Out here in New England, the riding contest community is tight knit b/c they're all so focused.
Friends & Colleagues can spread the word of your needs a lot better than random date websites.
Your horse community is probably tightly connected, and all you need to do is "put the word out" or have your eerily similar roommate put the word out that you are seeking a mate, and someone should come riding to your door.
If the scenario is legit: they should just date each other.
Some of the time, there's a good catch right in front of our eyes the whole time but the "grass is greener" mentality clouds our judgment OR the timing is wrong.