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The one man I met in person seemed very interesting and interested, but shared early on that even e Harmony had told him he was not “matchable” due to his social awkwardness.
After a rather disconnected experience sitting through an experimental movie, I ended the conversation. She had more than one home, so I never new about her other life. Kathleen Reply Hi Kathleen, Thanks for commenting and for reading my books.
the bad grammar used to be notorious as well, I think that has improved these days. I still cant help but swipe left for any guy with a selfie because my inner voice screams “Narcissist!!!! Through training with people like Kim, it’s a lot easier to spot the narcissists; the I I I I aye types; the ones demanding a Rolls Royce or a Bentley; the ones that subtly insult you in the opening words, or start a quarrel (wadya mean you are a female contractor; bet you don’t get dirty.) I do get dirty, and I’ve been doing so since you were a gleam in your Daddy’s eyes. Very recently, I just pulled the plug on everything.
My grammar is not perfect, but my first language is spanish, so my apologies. I’m getting much happier with who I am, thank you very much.
When in my early 30’s I did newspaper ads, then after a while starting in my late 30’s, I did the online thing, one of my first was ok cupid…I met someone there in my early 40’s who turned out to be a narcissistic weirdo who only wanted one thing, and it wasnt a committed relationship (at least with me), unfortunately, it took me a while to get over that emotional obsession, by the time I did, it was really too late for me -nature had taken away my ability to have children…I have had 100% bad stuff from every online dating service I joined and that has been over a dozen and the men there…from being stood up, to meeting psychos who boldly put up pictures that were not them or from 20 yrs prior, to being abused verbally or emotionally, to being lied, to promises of love that never happened, to being coaxed to give of myself just to be taken advantage of…You can see, I don’t need an article to keep me away, but keep spreading the word, so others might know. I asked what was the day’s weather like in Santa Ana, he gave me Raleigh’s NC weather, like 20 degrees hotter than CA. I know there are out there vulnerable people that can fell for people like this guy… I’ve been dipping my toes in the water, but the idea of dating really scares the crap out of me!
Reply I messaged with this guy from Santa Ana, CA on OKC. He “grew up” in South Africa (That’s a big red flag) overseas people always end up asking for money. My point is; if someone approaches you mentioning south Africa, the UK, a military career, most likely it’s a scam. Those were only the ones in person and I at one time close to 100 messages from different people on the site that red flags were so bad I did not even respond to the message. I have been trying out Bumble which gives women all the power, so that one feels the safest so far. Sure, you can anticipate some level of flack – that’s what it is, right or wrong, to be female on the internet. They wanted some kind of “relationship” with a girl without putting any work into it. In the real world, there is always an effort – at the very least, to be civil.
A few weeks later he discarded me just at the point he knew I was gearing up to go on job interviews.
I never had a good experience, however brief, with anyone I ever met on either of those sites. Thanks Kim for being here too 🙂 Reply Ha, I know what you mean, a co worker met someone on Match.com, within no time, he sent her texts messages and calls all day and night everyday (yuck) and sent her flowers to the office…was over the moon, then they got married, she claimed everything was fine, until one day when they had been married less than a year, she caught him at another girls house in his robe…yes, she actually caught him, I think she followed him or something-she’s a feisty Italian -haha.
Reply I am sorry that you went through this, particularly in the wake of a break up.Narcissists (and other manipulators) ask for full body shots because it is their way of seeing if you’re willing to send them something so personal when they barely know you. I was not really interested but he kept talking to me. “dave 1/6/2018 PM Report this message for inappropriate content Is there a nude image in this message? I meet one on a dating site I never heard of them before that. Narcs get to “show off” and titles and credentials while looking for those secretary girls OR sugar Mamas- but she can’t make more than him (can go either male or female here) and that Narc can think that’s s a “federal employee” he is “amazing” and makes a lot of $, “is a great loving father” (that could care less about his kids), and that Linked In member is sure to find plenty of supply with a “job” (bc stay at home mom’s raising that Narcs kids alone for 15 years are gold diggers and stole his kids). Reply I’ve tried Match and POF and Senior People Meet and got nothing. I don’t get drunk and fall in salad bars while out with them.People who are confident in themselves and have healthy boundaries would tell someone to take a hike instead of agreeing to send a full body shot to someone they barely know. He even took a cover narcissist test and scored pretty high. I wish I read this before getting into a relationship with him. We started to met up even though he really was not my type. If so, click here to report it Hi there ,good afternoon how re you doing today and how is the weather treating you over there right now ,it was your profile i found very interested on here and wanting to know you more better if you don,t mind and how long have you been on this site and what are you really looking for in a man on here as i,m all looking for that special woman that we can both spend the life together as i,m one man woman and hoping to meet the same in a woman …David” Reply OMG this sounds so much like the Master NARC I was with for 9 years. I managed to get him out of my life it’s wasn’t easy. Well, on Match I got a narc charmer who wanted to marry me within three months. I’ve went on dozens of dates and the only men I might be interested in have no interest in me. It’s like they think they are WAY cooler than they really are. Reply I used okcupid for several months after a breakup, hoping to meet friends and slowly get to know them and see if it develops into more. I ended up enduring a covert narc who could actually be more avoidant, and then a particularly nasty covert narc after the first one!I am not interested in another phony fake wolf pretending to be a sheep of the Good Shepherd. Anyone who asks for a full body shot objectifies people and is forming an opinion about someone in the same way they would as they scour a catalog for various items. Reply I have been single three years now and remain friends with my ex bf no sex involved but he wants to I don’t we don’t argue about it I tell him I’m just not interested in having sex anymore it’s a lie im just not interested in having sex with him. in fact I would keep a low profile and just browse other people’s profiles and try to see who might not be a narc… 1) It’s an indicator that they have no interest in your personality or you as a human being. THIS is the perfect time, if you plan on dating again (personally I’d enjoy my newly recovered freedom for a while and avoid dating sites, but that’s me and you are not me) to go back and look up cyber safety documentation and learn how to not give away too much info…
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–The key to success really seems to be to practice self-validation and go out in the real world, attend meet-up group events, and be very attentive to the people around you in every day situations. I am grateful for Kim’s transparent description of Tinder and POF, no need to waste my own time or recommend it to anyone, thank you much! Wishing you the best, Kim Reply When I finally looked to see if the ex narcopath had dating profiles I found some where around ten on various dating/hook up/swinger sites. My tip to anyone newly dating someone is to do a Google search on their phone number. Both only lasted about 5 months and were absolute train wrecks.